Be Generous!

First thing to know for Farangs is that Asian men tip far more generously than Farangs. Most Farangs imagine that they are the big spenders in the clubs, but they are not... The big spenders are the guys from Singapore, Malaysia, Hongkong, Taiwan, Japan and China.

Second thing is that if you build up trust with the young men from the bars, they will give you far more than just sex. Thais are more social than sexual. They work for money, but don't like to work for money. They like to please their patron.

Be generous! Give more to the guy who goes out of his way to take you to Seventh Heaven, and less to the one who doesn't give a damn, but be generous! Be generous with the stupid one, the ugly one, the greedy one too! If you are generous, your "moneyboy" will travel 36 hours in a non-A/C bus to come to see you, without knowing ahead whether you are going to give him even just the bus fare back.

If you are generous, you don't need to talk about money. Never give less than 2000 baht short time, and never less than 5000 for the whole night (not including the off fee) If a boy stays with you for a week or more, maybe 3000 per day will probably be enough, plus the off fee. We are not talking about Bangkok superstars here, for them add one zero.

You don't believe me? Go to any Farang bar in Pattaya and look who is making a Swiss and sour face, and then listen to their frustrated litany: They're the guys who save on tips.

Meanwhile the generous guy is having a perfect sexy after-lunch nap+ with one or two or three friends, and nothing will ever wipe the grin from his face.

Be generous!